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FAMILY · DIVORCE · PARENTING COORDINATION

A clearer path
for your family.

Private remote facilitative mediation for family, separation and divorce. Work through parenting, finances and the decisions that matter, with a focused process and room to be heard.

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CHRISTMAS & HOLIDAY PARENTING TIME · 2026

Make a clear parenting plan
before Christmas.

Christmas Eve, school holidays, travel and handovers. Make space to work through the details before the holiday rush.

You can focus on the holiday schedule without resolving every other issue in your separation.

01 Prompt, focused conversations

02 Privacy with clear boundaries

03 Decisions that remain yours

OUR SERVICES

What would you like
to work through?

A full separation, a financial disagreement or one practical parenting issue. Married, separating, divorced and unmarried parents can enquire about a process suited to their circumstances.

Considered Mediation Handbook: Family, Divorce and Parenting Coordination Mediation and Arbitration

A FREE GUIDE FROM CONSIDERED MEDIATION

Prepare for a more
productive conversation.

Download our free Considered Mediation Handbook. Understand your options, prepare for mediation, and learn about parenting coordination and arbitration, including benefits, limitations and questions to ask before you begin.

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128 pages · Large print · Practical preparation worksheets

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THE ISSUES FAMILIES BRING

Big decisions.
Everyday details.

We help turn a broad disagreement into specific questions that can be discussed, one at a time.

HOW WE WORK

Careful preparation.
Constructive conversation.
Practical next steps.

Facilitative mediation gives each person space to be heard. We help clarify concerns, explore options and support informed decisions. We do not impose a settlement or give legal advice.

One or both parties may have a lawyer assist. Self-represented participants are encouraged to obtain independent legal advice before, during and after mediation.

Explore the full process
  1. 01

    Prepare thoughtfully.

    Private intake helps us understand the concerns, assess suitability and agree on how to work together.

  2. 02

    Make room for each perspective.

    Clarify the issues, explore the interests beneath them and consider practical options.

  3. 03

    Make the next steps clear.

    Identify agreed points and outstanding questions. Allow time for independent legal advice before proposed terms are signed or relied on.

THE BENEFITS OF PRIVATE MEDIATION

Less waiting.
More privacy.
A voice in what happens next.

For suitable matters, a private process can help you address decisions sooner, focus the discussion and work toward arrangements that fit your family.

01 / EXPEDIENCY

A date to work toward

Arrange a focused conversation around your family’s deadlines. Ask for the earliest available intake and session, subject to readiness and suitability.

02 / PRIVACY

A private setting

Discuss sensitive issues in sessions that are not open to the public. Confidentiality, its exceptions and any permitted reporting are explained before engagement.

03 / CHOICE

Decisions remain yours

Explore options, take advice and decide whether to agree. You can address one urgent practical issue or a wider separation agenda.

Clear scope and fees, remote access and a process adapted to the participants. Timing, costs and outcomes depend on the circumstances.

Why choose private mediation?

ONTARIO & ALBERTA

Do we have to mediate?
What about free services?

Court requirements and financial assistance are different questions. Our short guide explains family court requirements, free or subsidized options and where private mediation fits.

Read the court & fee guide
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ABOUT CONSIDERED MEDIATION

York University education.
Family-law experience.
A considered approach.

Considered Mediation is led by Waldemar A. (Andrew) Igras, a former Alberta family-law litigator with extensive experience of difficult negotiations and emotionally charged disputes.

His education includes a Dispute Resolution Certificate from York University’s School of Continuing Studies, including civil-mediation coursework.

He is also completing York University’s Certificate in Family Mediation — in progress. The program covers facilitative mediation, family law, family relationships, screening for domestic violence and advanced mediation practice. About the York program ↗

Completion of the family mediation certificate is planned before the parenting coordination service opens. That service remains in development while its scope and professional requirements are confirmed.

A parenting disagreement may reflect concerns about stability, fairness or a child’s changing needs. A financial disagreement may involve uncertainty about the future. We look beyond the opening demand to understand what needs to be addressed.

He draws on nearly 20 years of legal experience and now focuses entirely on research, writing, mediation, arbitration and parenting coordination. He does not currently practise law, and he encourages readers and the people he works with to get independent legal advice where they live.

Our role in mediation is impartial. Participants make their own decisions. Parenting coordination remains a planned service, as described on this site.

York University
Dispute Resolution Certificate
York University · in progress
Certificate in Family Mediation

Training put into practice: preparation, impartial listening, managing difficult dynamics, exploring options and recording clear next steps.

BEFORE YOU BEGIN

A little clarity
goes a long way.

Answers to common questions about preparation, participation and what happens next.

More about our approach
How private is mediation?

Sessions are not open to the public. The written mediation agreement explains confidentiality, its legal limits and any information that may be disclosed. A settlement or later court filing may have a different status. Read about privacy and confidentiality.

Can private mediation help us move sooner?

A focused session may be arranged without waiting for a contested hearing date. Actual timing depends on availability, both participants’ intake, necessary disclosure and any legal advice. Ask about current dates. Mediation does not suspend court deadlines or guarantee settlement.

Can we address just the Christmas schedule?

Yes, a suitable mediation can focus on a defined holiday issue. You do not need to settle every financial or parenting question in the same session. Explore the holiday service and checklist.

Do we have to pay privately because of our income?

No general income rule requires you to buy private mediation. Eligibility for free or subsidized services depends on the program. Compare Ontario and Alberta options.

Will the mediator tell us who is right?

We use facilitative mediation. The mediator helps clarify concerns, explore options and keep the conversation productive, without imposing a result or giving legal advice. Participants decide whether to agree, supported by their own independent advice.

Can my lawyer or another adviser participate?

Yes. One or both parties may have their own lawyer assist with preparation, participate in sessions by arrangement, or advise between sessions. If only one party has a lawyer, that lawyer does not advise the other party. We discuss roles, fairness, access to advice and any support person or interpreter at intake.

What if I am self-represented?

You can enquire without retaining a lawyer for your whole matter. We encourage you to obtain independent legal advice before, during and after mediation, especially before signing or relying on proposed terms. Ask a lawyer about advice or document review for a defined part of your matter. Explore legal-help resources.

What should I prepare?

A short chronology, the main issues, the documents that matter and a clear sense of your priorities are a useful start. Consider what you need to learn, which options you could discuss and what you may do if agreement is not reached. We will identify appropriate document-sharing arrangements during intake.

Do we have to sit in the same room?

The format is discussed beforehand. Joint sessions, separate private meetings, shuttle discussions or virtual arrangements may be considered. The appropriate choice depends on suitability, safety, practical needs and the participants’ circumstances.

How are fees and timing determined?

Ask for the earliest available intake and a written fee proposal. We confirm the preparation, session time and follow-up included, how extra time is approved, payment arrangements and cancellation terms. Booking follows suitability checks and agreement on the terms.

What if we reach only a partial agreement?

We can identify the points resolved and the issues still open. The status of any written terms, any further information needed and the next steps should be clear. For family matters, seek independent legal advice about proposed agreements and existing orders.

READ. REFLECT. PREPARE.

A considered perspective.

Explore the DivorceNexus support calculators, official information and books to help you prepare for the next conversation.

For further background: Justice Canada’s guide to family dispute resolution

YOUR NEXT STEP

You don’t need every answer
to begin a conversation.

Tell us the general issue, your province and any important dates. We will discuss suitability, current availability and the scope and fees before you decide whether to proceed.

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